Relationships

Sexually Transmitted Disease: Loneliness

You may not even know that you’re a carrier. No discharge. No smell. No bleeding. No open wounds. No reddened external urethral meatus – whatever that is. Few partners know they have this disease. Even fewer will ever admit it. Nothing protects: Not condoms, foam, IUD, or the pill. Everyone knows the risks. Everyone knows ...

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Anyone Seen My Vomit?

We are all more intricately complex than any of us are willing to admit. At the same time, we’re also very simple. Ironic. My marriage has been a strained the last couple of weeks. Both of us as stressed with work, exhausted by an infant that wont sleep through the night, and anxious about the ...

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I Need a Shared Life

Back in the saddle again. The re-write on my book, Love’s Compass, has been completed… finally. My agent made some suggestions that I believe have made the read even more potent and digestible. Yea, Kathy! I’ve  got a months worth of life observation I can now write about. In addition, there’s a couple of conferences ...

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7 Ways to Bring Sexy Back to Your Marriage

Foreplay starts WAAAYYY before the bedroom. We’ve had two children in the last two years and life has never been the same. Between feedings, nap time, laundry, cleaning, diaper changes, and work… there’s little time for sleep, let alone love-making. It’s so easy to slip into the routine of life and miss out on the ...

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How to Make Sex & Marriage Like a Camel & Water

Sometimes, I think we make issues far bigger than they need to be. Other times, I think we neglect to see gigantic red flags right before our eyes… then other times, we just don’t know what in the heck we’re doing. I think the issue of sex in marriage is exactly like this – horribly ...

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